At some end in our lives, we all go away through moments like these. We go from side to side so much pain, heartaches, and rejections that we start to think that good things will never come that we will by no means be able to turn our lives approximately for the better. We start to think that no material what we do, no matter how much we try we will always be fixed in this same state of affairs. And because of that, we often wake up lost, confused, bitter and disappointed at ourselves.
1. Accepting the things that you can’t control.
I am what you call a manage freak. I consider that if I’m in control not anything bad is leaving to happen and everything will go as designed. I spend so much time and energy trying to manage everything, trying to stop bad things from happening. But of course, I not pass. It only causes me so much distress and irritation. Because in reality, no matter how much we like to deny and ignore it, there are a lot of things that we have zero control of.
2. Forgive yourself.
I’ve knowledgeable so many setbacks, rejection and failed a dozen times that I started to hate and criticise myself. Every day I continuously hit myself up for every stoppage and mistake that I have done in the past that leads me into this darkness. I made myself believe that in spite of what I do I could never turn my life around. Those things will never be okay because I don’t deserve it.
3. Always make time for yourself.
I have this routine of always putting the wants of other’s first before mine. I find it extra rewarding to do that. But after on the way out into sadness, I realised that one of the major reasons why I’m attentive in this darkness is because I choose to present and offer and give until there was not no matter which left of me. I was too absorbed of putting the needs of other people first that I forget to take care of my own. And I don’t want you to make the similar mistake. So, here’s what I’ll tell you: creation time for yourself is not interested. I’m not telling you that putting the needs of other’s first is a bad thing but if you continually do it to a point anywhere you start to forget yourself, then that’s where the problem begins.